DR. JOHNBEN LOY — FOUNDER & CLINICAL DIRECTOR
Executive Life Coach & Family Business Advisor
USA-Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (Minnesota license no: 2053)
Clinical Fellow and Approved Supervisor – American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT)
PhD, Family Social Science (specialization in Marriage & Family Therapy) – University of Minnesota.
MTS (specialization in Counseling) – Tyndale Seminary, Toronto.
MBA – Judge School of Business, University of Cambridge, England.
- Certified practitioner for the following assessment tools: MBTI®, FIRO Element-BTM, Strong Interest Inventory®, CernySmith Assessment (Stress Test), PREPARE/ENRICH.
- Certified trainer in PREP Relationship education programme.
- Advanced-trained therapist in EMDR Therapy and Emotionally-Focused Couples Therapy.
- Completion of ICISF-accredited Critical Incident Stress Management (CISM) courses: Individual Crisis Intervention & Peer Support, and Group Crisis Intervention
- Certified Forum Facilitator for YPO (Young Presidents’ Organization)
|Announcement: Dr. Johnben Loy now focuses his work on providing Executive Coaching and Couple & Family Therapy to a specific clientele: C-suite corporate leaders, organisational leaders (e.g. NGO), family business leaders, and professionals. He is open to working with these clients as well as their family-members and organisational leadership teams. If you are a new client wishing to work with Dr. Johnben Loy, please request to speak with Ms. Ai Lin, his personal assistant, to determine if working with him would be a good fit for you.|
I have been seeing clients in Canada, United States, Japan, and Malaysia since 2000, in medical, university, corporate, non-profit, and private practice settings. I see my role as one where I help clients move towards relational and emotional well being, where they can function with honest and healthy self-determination.
Due to my busy schedule, I mostly focus on working with C-suite corporate leaders, business-owning executives, and NGO organisational leaders as well as their family members. I specialise in issues related to leadership development, emotional intelligence, couple communication, marital infidelity, cross-cultural issues, expat-family challenges, family conflict (especially in family businesses), stress & anger management, performance anxieties, childhood abuse, addictions, trauma, and sexual compulsivity. I also specialise in helping men in their 40s-50s work through challenges related to mid-life transitions.
Clinically, I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (Minnesota license #2053) and Approved Supervisor of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (link). I adhere to the ethical standards of the Minnesota Board of MFT as well as the American Association of MFT to ensure that you will receive the best care possible. In addition to my qualifications in marriage and family therapy, I have received accredited training in some of the best research-supported treatments, namely: EFCT (Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy), PREP (Preventative and Relationship Enhancement Program), and EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing). In addition, I have received training in the diagnosis and treatment of sexual addiction under Dr. Mark Laaser, expert and author on sex addiction. To keep my clinical knowledge up-to-date, I partake in continuing education as required by my American credentialing bodies.
At Rekindle, all my clients begin with a comprehensive 100-minute intake assessment, after which I will give some feedback to them and we ascertain the goals for therapy. I work collaboratively with my clients to help them build up their capacity towards healing and growth. I listen carefully to what is going on for them, and I help them to uncover areas that might be causing blockages to insight. Often, my clients receive deep understanding about themselves through our work by looking at the patterns or habits that have been developed since childhood. For couples and families, I help them towards greater understanding and acceptance of each other through deep listening, both to themselves and to each other. Partners and members shift in expectations and perceptions of each other from angry/blaming to loving/accepting by going deep into self- and relationship- understanding.
My systemic work with families have also been applied to companies and organisations to help teams work through conflict management issues. Institutional clients can also request to speak with me to find out what kinds of services my clinical associates and I can provide in helping with topics such as: stress, employee engagement, critical incident stress management, team conflict management, and employee assistance programme.
In 2018, I received credentialing as a Certified Forum Facilitator for the YPO (Young Presidents’ Organization), and I will be providing training and consultation to YPO members around the Asia Pacific Region including India. Senior executives and their team members can contact my office to enquire more about the executive life coaching as well as family business advising services that I provide.
Along with my varied academic background (music, psychology, business, theology, and family social science), I have managed small businesses, worked in medium private and large public-listed corporations, served in church ministry positions, and lectured in universities at the undergraduate and graduate levels teaching family business management as well as marriage and family therapy. My Ph.D. dissertation focused on generating a theory of Malaysian Chinese family-owned businesses and can be accessed here.
I am of Malaysian Chinese origin and my wife is a caucasian Westerner. We have two wonderful bi-cultural teenage children who are learning what it means to be Third Culture Kids. I am able to converse in intermediate level Mandarin and Hokkien (Penang), and to a lesser extent, basic level Bahasa Malaysia and a smattering of French — not enough French to do therapy with but I enjoy letting people know that I can speak a bit of it!
My community work includes serving as the Founding President of the Malaysian Marriage and Family Therapy Association (MyMFT), a new non-profit association which aims to promote the field of MFT in Malaysia; and from 2010 until 2017, I held a regularly monthly radio show on BFM radio where I covered topics related to family and mental health. See LinkedIn for my updated vita.
English, Mandarin, Penang Hokkien, Bahasa Malaysia (basic), French (un petit peu).
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